Comments on: Are Poor Communication Skills Keeping You From Maintaining the Quality of Marriage Intimacy You Want in Your Relationship? http://www.newageselfhelp.com/main/are-poor-communication-skills-keeping-you-from-maintaining-the-quality-of-marriage-intimacy-you-want-in-your-relationship aaaaa Mon, 06 Feb 2012 15:47:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Ken Jackson@Communication in Marraige http://www.newageselfhelp.com/main/are-poor-communication-skills-keeping-you-from-maintaining-the-quality-of-marriage-intimacy-you-want-in-your-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-76885 Ken Jackson@Communication in Marraige Thu, 07 Jul 2011 14:49:18 +0000 http://www.newageselfhelp.com/?p=1931#comment-76885 Communication in marriage is the vital glue to a successful marriage. We all know that we need to better communicate in a relationship, yet so few of us actualy do it. Common sense, is really not common practice and that is the key problem. In order to better communicate with your better half, we first need to understand and connect with our partner before we seek to be understood. Ken Jackson (a.k.a ecommunicationinmarriage.com) Communication in marriage is the vital glue to a successful marriage. We all know that we need to better communicate in a relationship, yet so few of us actualy do it. Common sense, is really not common practice and that is the key problem. In order to better communicate with your better half, we first need to understand and connect with our partner before we seek to be understood.

Ken Jackson (a.k.a ecommunicationinmarriage.com)

]]> By: Duddy http://www.newageselfhelp.com/main/are-poor-communication-skills-keeping-you-from-maintaining-the-quality-of-marriage-intimacy-you-want-in-your-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-73719 Duddy Wed, 29 Jun 2011 23:08:21 +0000 http://www.newageselfhelp.com/?p=1931#comment-73719 "...the need they’re trying to meet underneath the criticism or complaint is critical to creating genuinely satisfying relationships.” I'm not sure if this statement is more simply stated than it is utterly profound or more utterly profound than it is simply stated. Criticisms disguise core-relationship needs and so fuel emotional detachment. As a professional counselor, I have a duty to tweet! Gratefully, Duddy. “…the need they’re trying to meet underneath the criticism or complaint is critical to creating genuinely satisfying relationships.”

I’m not sure if this statement is more simply stated than it is utterly profound or more utterly profound than it is simply stated. Criticisms disguise core-relationship needs and so fuel emotional detachment.

As a professional counselor, I have a duty to tweet!

Gratefully,
Duddy.

]]> By: Thomas@What Do Men Really Want? http://www.newageselfhelp.com/main/are-poor-communication-skills-keeping-you-from-maintaining-the-quality-of-marriage-intimacy-you-want-in-your-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-46335 Thomas@What Do Men Really Want? Mon, 14 Mar 2011 18:24:09 +0000 http://www.newageselfhelp.com/?p=1931#comment-46335 I really enjoyed this post. Communication is probably the most important aspect in a relationship. If a couple can't practice healthy communication with one another they will never be able to grow and without growth the relationship will remain stagnant and boring until someone ends it. If couples can communicate with each other through things they will see some great relationship progression, rather than set-backs. I really enjoyed this post. Communication is probably the most important aspect in a relationship. If a couple can’t practice healthy communication with one another they will never be able to grow and without growth the relationship will remain stagnant and boring until someone ends it.

If couples can communicate with each other through things they will see some great relationship progression, rather than set-backs.
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]]> By: Craig http://www.newageselfhelp.com/main/are-poor-communication-skills-keeping-you-from-maintaining-the-quality-of-marriage-intimacy-you-want-in-your-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-16951 Craig Tue, 05 Oct 2010 14:29:34 +0000 http://www.newageselfhelp.com/?p=1931#comment-16951 Excellent tips. It's amazing how long these communication issues can take to sort out; often a couple can be together for years before they really get a feel for how the other person communications and what hidden meanings are behind what they actually say. For example, how many husbands get defensive when their wives direct pent-up emotion and frustration toward them, even though that frustration is about something else completely? It takes a while to realize this is just venting, and should be responded to with hugs and words of support, not definsive arguing that only makes matters worse. You are so on target; understanding is so vital to a successful marriage. Thanks for sharing these tips! Excellent tips. It’s amazing how long these communication issues can take to sort out; often a couple can be together for years before they really get a feel for how the other person communications and what hidden meanings are behind what they actually say.

For example, how many husbands get defensive when their wives direct pent-up emotion and frustration toward them, even though that frustration is about something else completely? It takes a while to realize this is just venting, and should be responded to with hugs and words of support, not definsive arguing that only makes matters worse.

You are so on target; understanding is so vital to a successful marriage. Thanks for sharing these tips!
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