Comments on: Authentic Happiness – Means Learning to Love Yourself First

By: Jim

Jim — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 03:45:01 +0000

Happiness, that elusive quality that confounds some and seems innate in others. How can this be. It seems to me that the most important quality in the uncovering of happiness is the belief that it is possible and that if I intend to pursue it I will find it.

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By: Beth Banning

Beth Banning — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 15:19:13 +0000

Hi Curt… We appreciate you stopping by and voicing your opinions.

Obviously you disagree strongly with our assertion that if you look under your feelings you can identify the deeply held values that motivate you.

Differing opinions are normal and we believe this is the reason there are so many different kinds of teachings in the world. We are all in different places at different times and what works for one person doesn’t always support another.

You said: “This is the biggest load of untruth I’ve ever heard. Don’t you know basic psychology? You obviously were just trying to come up with a pretty way of saying things. Remember, beautiful words don’t make up for ignorance. This is NOT valuable content!”

We’re guessing that integrity and effectiveness are probably very important to you. You’d like to see people given information that is based in some recognize or substantiated science.

Honesty and really facing problems head-on might be what’s important to you here. And maybe you have some concern that if people don’t look at reality that they’re just lying to themselves.

Again, we believe that clarity about what’s going on for ourselves and others is what brings us to a point of connection and understanding. We have found no better way to do this than getting underneath the words we use to what we deeply value.

Thanks again for stopping by Curt…

We wish you a life filled with peace love and happiness.

By: Curt

Curt — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 12:13:40 +0000

“Feelings of sadness, confusion, or anger are just covering up values that are missing in a situation. When you are feeling sad confused or angry it’s almost impossible to practice self-love. Identifying your undiscovered values can help you notice amazing parts of you that you can easily like and then learn to love.” – This is the biggest load of untruth I’ve ever heard. Don’t you know basic psychology? You obviously were just trying to come up with a pretty way of saying things. Remember, beautiful words don’t make up for ignorance. This is NOT valuable content!

By: Shane Belceto

Shane Belceto — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 00:18:00 +0000

yes great news in fact … and I have learned at least for me but also for many others it all comes down to choices, choices each day in all sorts of shapes and sizes. Thank YOU again!

~Expect Miracles

By: Beth Banning

Beth Banning — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 22:11:34 +0000

You’re so welcome Shane. And it’s wonderful to hear that you’ve taken some of the steps and continue to support yourself in these ways. As it seems like you figured out… Each day and each moment is up to us and that’s the good news.

By: Shane Belceto

Shane Belceto — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 21:05:07 +0000

Thank YOU for this great little artical I know is only the beginning for many of us.

To be honest this was and at some points one of the biggest barriors for me. I had some very low points in my life to witch not loving myself at all almost lead to no “me” the nothingness I felt was killing me. Still today I need pay attention to my selftalk and how I am feeling about myself in todays point in time.

I do know though the ‘me” of the past is a completely diff person then the “me” of today since I have taken steps such as you have suggested and continue to “love” myself more and more.

HUGS to each of YOU and Thank YOU for posting this on FB.

~Expect Miracles
Shane