Comments on: The Games People Play: Being Right vs. Being Happy – Part Two

By: Beth Banning

Beth Banning — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 18:53:55 +0000

So true Florin… If we can stand in that place of knowing that we are all just trying to take care of ourselves the best way we know how, then we can know It’s all the same and so are we. )

By: Beth Banning

Beth Banning — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 18:50:04 +0000

That’s wonderful Chrissy and so true. Thanks for sharing.

By: Beth Banning

Beth Banning — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 18:47:58 +0000

You are so welcome Kim.:o)

By: Kim

Kim — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 17:50:44 +0000

Games People Play–Part 1&2 are so on target. It is amazing how people become tangled in situations which breed anger, frustration & create a zip of negative energy that radiates from them toward others. Once you allow yourself to react in a finger pointg situation it is so easy to continue the practice when an opportunity arises. It is a very bad habit & we do not realize we are doing it. It has been a number of yrs now for me since I refuse to go to that place. As soon as my body begins to tense up, my brow frowns & my spirit begins to sink down…I know it is time to walk away & not become involved. It is not worth it. I try to always have since of peace & understanding in me. It all has to do with how the situation makes me feel & I know I cannot change anyone other than myself, that is the only thing I have control over….me. Thank you Neill & Beth I will continue to read your posts…they touch in the small crevices of lives that can be missed.

By: Chrissy

Chrissy — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 20:55:16 +0000

Between my husband and I, it's like a game someone has to be right. And either way we are not happy... we have needed to change as we are too competitive with eachother. I've been reading a lot about spirituality that has helped, as I am a self help kind of girl. I've been reading, "Decoding The Spiritual Messages of Everyday Life" by Dr. Paul DeBell. One of the things that stuck with me, If you learned something, then someone else can benefit from your explaining it. My husband learns something and he has to explain it to me to help me understand. I've learned so much from him, and never knew these were Spiritual messages.

By: Florin

Florin — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 18:25:10 +0000

being happy beats the hell out of being right. I quite fun letting people to be right and do whatever they do convince you that they’re right and you’re wrong. In the end it doesn’t matter what’s right or wrong. It’s all the same :p