And there’s even an an option where you can participate for free. You can sign up by going to: http://www.focusedattention.biz/product_info.php?products_id=123

And in the meantime you can check out this article. it goes into some of the details. http://www.focusedattention.com/articles/Making_Resolutions_Reality.htm

I hope this helps… please let me know if you have any other questions.

Warmly,
Beth

Could you give more information about establishing the “value-based intention?” I’m new to the idea of identifying the underlying values that we bring to our interactions. More clarification or examples of this would be appreciated.

Many thanks,
Kathy

Thanks so much for stopping by and commenting on our crucial conversation check list. We so enjoy the interaction.

When we write our posts, its always our intention to give clear information that will support people in creating more satisfying relationships.

After reading your comment I feel a little confused and just wanted to check in.

Did it seem to you that we left out listening while you’re having a conversation?

Our hope was that the listening aspect was assumed in the getting on the same page, getting their point of view, negotiation, and agreements sections of the checklist. For without really hearing what’s going on for the other person at these times–as you said– would be a one-way street and not very satisfying for anyone.

I guess there’s also a distinction between listening to the words people say and really hearing underneath the words to what people truly value. But that’s a whole another post.

So after reading this comment, would you be willing to reread those sections and see if the listening part still seems to be left out for you. I would very much enjoy your input.

With appreciation,
Beth

That said, this is a wonderful list to help conversations go smoother and be more productive!